Last night I had a G2G ( girl to girl) text exchange with my bestie Elaine. Elaine is my muse and works closely with me on Girls Unedited – she’s pretty much amazing !
L: I was looking at your Instagram, I didn’t know you were into guys with tats.
E: Yeah, I love tattoos. My friend, Brigid, got me into this Canadian body builder with tattoos over half his body.
L: Do you have any tats?
E: Yeah, I have music symbols on my hips.
L: (laughing) Do they play music when you have sex?
E: (laughing) No, but that might be fun. Do you have any tattoos?
L: Yeah, I have a tribal symbol of wings on my lower back. I’m waiting for them to get clipped so I can settle down.
L: You like tattoos on guys?
E: Yes. I have a nerdy reason and a sexy reason.
L: What’s your nerdy reason?
E: I like the stories behind them.
L: I agree, the symbolism can be really cool.
E: Yeah, and some of the stories are crazy.
L: What’s your sexy reason?
E: Well, when someone finds a good tattoo artist who understands how muscles move on a body and they place the tattoo just so, that’s really hot.
L: I just love it when you can see a guys tat peak out from under his shirt.
E: Yes! Makes you think.
L: Right. It makes you wonder if they’re a bad boy or a just little edgy. Look at Beckham. He is covered and super hot. Not all guys could pull that off.
E: He really does pull it off. Soccer players are kind of notorious for their tats.
L: Where’s your favorite place on a guy for a tattoo?
E: I really like chest tattoos.
L: I like shoulder blades and on the arm. If a guy has a good chest, that can be pretty sexy.
E: What’s your favorite tattoo?
L: I like different variations of tribal tattoos.
Hell YES! I’m a sucker for a guy with a Tattoo. When I decided to write this blog I had deja vu about a guy I met with a great tattoo. At the time I was living in Venice Beach, Ca. I was at the ATM on Windward Ave. when I saw a hot guy about 6’2″, olive skin, dark shoulder length hair, athletic body, sweats and a distressed jean shirt walking toward me.
First thing I notice is a sexy tribal tat peaking out from under his shirt. He came over to me, introduced himself and said he thought I was cute and asked if I lived close by. John was visiting from Tasmania, staying at the hostel across the street. He had a rockin’ accent and was super charming. After 15 minutes of talking, he asked me if I would mind if he showered at my apartment.
Shower? I was like “OMG, shower? As in water, naked?”
“I don’t even know you.”
He replied in a very soft sensuous voice, ” Yes you do, you like me.” (He was spot on with that, he was very cute.)
“The showers are horrible at the hostel, can I come over?” he asked. Out of the norm, I decided “why not!” In Kabbalah they say “Go out of your box.” I’ve never done anything like this. I figured, I’ll try almost anything once. As the story goes, we ended up in a great relationship for almost a year until he moved back home. To this day, I can still remember his tattoo and it’s enigma that pulled me in to want to get to know this stranger better.
Tattoos may not equal sex appeal to some conservatives or Jews, but I think the general consensus seems to be that tattoos do in fact enhance a guy’s sex appeal, within reason. Face and full body tattoo’s fall outside of this idea. I asked the girls of Girls Unedited what goes on in their head when they see a guy with a tat, the comments I got were :
“this guy isn’t afraid to walk on the wild side”
” he must be good in bed”
“shows he’s not afraid of pain”
“he’s passionate and not afraid to show it”
“he probably has a bad boy side – that’s hot”
“mysterious, I want to know his story”
“he must have a big d**k, he had the balls to get a tat”
Based on the girls’ comments I think a great nickname for a guy’s tat is a “stud stamp.” Much better then the girls “tramp stamp.”
“My body is my journal and my tattoo is my story.”
If you’re thinking about inking, do your research!
- Don’t bargain shop for your artist – A talented artist is not cheap – nor should they be. Check out different shops, get references, read yelp reviews, have him or her do sketches for you, make sure hygiene is a top priority. No garage tattoos! Go to a reputable shop.
- Design – do your homework. Think twice about doing your girlfriend’s name, a naked chick, a “MOM” tat…. it’s really not a turn on to see another girl’s sketch or name on a guy’s arm. And “Mom” should probably stay on greeting cards, it’s just not very sexy. Your art represents you. Removals are not fun or cheap. Sleep on it!