For the first time in my life, I went on an online dating site to see wtf it was all about. I discovered so many things that I didn’t know. I will get into that later. Right now, before this holiday weekend, I want to tell you my biggest takeaway. And don’t say
I’m basing it on the fact that I’m a professional photographer. Guys you need to take this seriously.
As a diplomatic female, looking at photos of guys online, I’m wondering ” What the hell is it with the selfies of guys holding a cell phone in the mirror?.” Holy Crap! If your doing this, you need to STOP right now!! Get a buddy to take a shot, hire someone, do anything but stop the craziness of the lame deer in the headlight shot with your cell phone and a dirty mirror. You have 10 seconds to catch a women’s attention.
Due to this discovery, I will be writing a book on ” How To Show Up Online.”
Goal is, Do not sabotage yourself and Do not lose dates before you have them.
Happy Memorial Weekend!