Yesterday a girlfriend asked me if it’s unacceptable for a guy to text a dick pic. My answer was Yes and No.
If you’re in an intimate relationship with a deep trust, you can test the waters and say something like “I’m going crazy thinking about the last time we were together…I wish you could see what I have going on.” See if she bites.
She may say “so… show me.” Then you can debut your dick pic. I would not cross that bridge without an invite.
I was dating a guy a few years ago who lived far away. He and I had been best friends for about 15 years and started dating (stay tuned for my dating friends post). We got into sexting and it was an awesome way to keep the connubial fires burning without having to go into explicit text messages.
I had another incidence where a guy wanted to take me out and was trying to entice me with his 9” package. He said “I want to send you a picture of something, is that okay?” I said “If it’s you naked, NO. I don’t want to see your junk.” After weeks of going through the same conversation, he took it upon himself to send me a naked picture of himself standing in a locker room!
I couldn’t believe he crossed that line. I was so pissed! What if my son saw that message come in? Yeah, he had a big cock, but I didn’t ask to see it and didn’t give a crap. It pissed me off that he didn’t respect my wishes.
To this day, I have never spoke to him again nor did I ever go out with him.